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I went on a nice snowshoe loop this morning during a dualing moonset and sunrise. I was able to use the camera built into my Droid phone to take a few pictures. It was really an awesome way to start the day. I was also able to spend some further time with Bob, Kathy, Brian, Kim and Jason, all of whom stayed along with me at my mom and mike's place in Readlyn.

It was a very long trying day with regard to gma K's funeral. I had already said my goodbye. Today was about being with my larger family, to say our collective goodbye and put my grandmother to her rest. Along with my 10 other male first cousins, I was a pall bearer at the service. I have a significant difference in opinion with how the Catholic faith tradition conducts a funeral service. I much prefer funerals that celebrate the life of the person that has passed away. I tend to think that in this faith tradition, funerals are much too grim and solemn. I don't want to take away anything from the day, but will tell you with certainty that this is NOT how I want to be remembered when I pass someday. I wish that Alfonso could have at least spoken at the service or contributed to it in some way. He and I talked after the service today, and we both reflected on the number of times that he, grandma and I got to spend together several years ago. I would have liked it had Al been able to attend, it would have been really nice for him to share those memories either in the form of a homily are even at the blessing at the meal after the service. Anyway, I am happy that this day is over. I am happy that our family was able to come together and share this day together to say goodbye.